Threesomes may very well be one of those mythical things you know other people do but you just haven’t managed to master yourself. So if “have a threesome” has yet to be crossed off your bucket list, you’ve come to the right place.
The good news is that there’s actually a very easy way to make your ménage à trois dreams come true, and it has everything to do with downloading the right dating apps.
Dating sites for 3 ways
Since threesomes are nearly impossible to just randomly stumble upon (despite how Gossip Girl makes it seem), dating apps specifically designed for polyamarous relationships, group sex, and yup, threesomes, are where it’s at.
So here are some of the best dating apps out there that’ll lead to amazing convos, flirty sext exchanges, and maybe even a threesome or two. Do yourself a favor and download these before hitting on all your friends (unless that’s how you roll—and if so, let’s be friends).
The best app for anyone interested in a polyamorous relationship: #Open
If you’re looking for an ethical non-monogamous relationship or threesome, #Open is def the first place to check out. It’s one of the most inclusive apps out there, with its mission being to “accept people of all gender identities and orientations, from all walks of life, in any sort of relationship that makes you happy, no matter what gets you going.”
The reviews rave about its easy-to-use interface and wide array of gender and interest options. Users also say it feels super safe, which is a big plus if this is your first time turning to an app for a threesome. You can upgrade your membership for $9.99 a month, but honestly, the base app is solid on its own.
The best app for unicorns: 3way
So this app is really geared toward swingers and “sexually adventurous couples.” Like most of the other apps, it also has lots of sexual orientation and gender identity options to choose from. But the best feature in my opinion is the option to filter by couple type (like MF, FF, MM—you get it) so you can easily find who you’re lusting for. 3way also has a super fun “cupid” features that makes finding a match more of a game, which is great if you ever get swiping fatigue.
The premium option, which starts at $15.99 for one month or $8/month for six months, gives you additional features like the ability to see who viewed your profile and additional search filters.
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The best for anyone feeling frisky for something non-vanilla: Feeld
Originally called 3nder (before getting sued by Tinder for its likeness to the brand—lol), Feeld is the most well-known app for talking to multiple people—and actually comes highly recommended by the polyamorous community. You can join the app as a couple or a single, it has a great chat feature perfect for multi-person messages, it’s based on inclusivity (I’m talking 20+ sexual and gender identities), and even though it uses Facebook to make sure you’re a real person, it’s totally discrete and (thankfully) won’t post to your page.
While the base app is free, you can pay extra for its ~majestic membership~, which is $15.49 monthly or $30.99 for three months. Both options give you enhanced features including more privacy (like being able to hide your profile from FB friends also on the app), the ability to see your likes, and the option to add photos only your matches can see *wiggles eyebrows suggestively.*
The best for purely threesomes: 3Somer
Unlike Feeld, which is great for all types of kinks, 3Somer is an app literally just specifically for finding threesomes. Whether you want something casual or serious, the app is shockingly easy to use since its interface works just like every other mainstream dating app. You make a profile (whether solo or as a couple) and you start matching with people in the area by swiping. The app lets you specify what you’re into and also gives you more freedom with your profile, allowing you to post photos and status updates just like Facebook. The base app is free but you can pay $15.49 a month or $99.99 a year for its premium gold membership.
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The best for those on a budget: 3Fun
While a lot of threesome apps have the same general concepts (chats, pictures, and hopefully an orgasm at the end), 3Fun seems to offer the most valuable features in its free base download. Not only can you actually see who likes your profile and chat unlimitedly, but you can browse, add private photos, and set location boundaries so your neighbors don’t find your account (if you don’t want them to, that is). The best part: There’s a photo verification which eliminates bots and fake accounts. If you want to upgrade, the VIP service subscription starts at $29.99 a month, but TBH, the base account will most likely fulfill alllll of your needs.
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The best for fans of Instagram: 3rder
If your love language is Instagram stories, you’re 100 percent going to be here for 3rder’s model. While it comes with all of the usual bells and whistles, it also has a tool called “Moments” which lets you share up-to-date details just like you would in your story. While it doesn’t have as many free options as other apps, once you pay, it provides everything you could want — like a comprehensive profile that outlines exactly what you’re looking for and a simple-to-use interface. The pricing starts with 1-month subscriptions at $9.99 or you can get a 6-month membership for $39.99.
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The best for anyone looking to actually have fun using the app: Fantasy Match
When it comes to a comprehensive app that actually teaches you about your kinks and curiosities, none of the others can compare to Fantasy Match. There are multiple ways you can use it, whether you’re joining as a couple or a single. Basically, you have three main options for how to use the app (which you can mix up and use at your own discretion). You can learn (chat with an expert or explore different interests), play (hi, private rooms and convo prompts), or flirt (where you can connect with locals). Ranging from $5-$10, you can add on things like a Club Membership subscription, which unlocks even more features, or you can buy ~sexy stories~ to heat things up even more.
The best for those who don’t want a new app: Tinder
Odds are you either already have Tinder downloaded or it’s somewhere in the elusive cloud. Funny enough, it’s just as easy to use the app to find an eager third or a couple as it is to find a thirsty single.
Just select your sexual preference, what gender you’re looking for, add some photos of you and your S.O. (if you’re a duo looking for a third), and get to swiping. Make sure your bio is super clear so people don’t get confused, and reap the benefits of utilizing one of the most popular dating apps in a format you’ve probably already used to find a few flings in the past. Upgrade to Plus for $9.99 or Gold for $14.99 to unlock additional perks like a Boost to be the top profile in your area for 30 minutes or Super Likes to help stand out from others looking to get laid.